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bothheard

Invitation-only early access

Every side of the story.

The AI relationship coach that hears both sides — privately, one partner at a time — and brings in a licensed human expert when you need one.

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We're welcoming our first members by invitation. Tell us a little about you and we'll be in touch.

The problem

Couples drift apart in silence.

6 years

the average time couples stay unhappy before seeking help (Gottman Institute)

$150–300

per session for in-person couples therapy — out of reach for most

#1

gen-AI use of 2025: therapy and companionship (Harvard Business Review)

One partner feels unheard but can't find the words. Help is sought only after years of hurt — if it's affordable, or nearby, at all.

One conversation, three stages

No one else covers the whole journey.

Most tools stop at one stage. BothHeard walks with you from your first private thought, to a real conversation with your partner, to a human expert if you need one — all on one continuum.

1

You

You go first

Before anyone else is involved, you talk it through with your coach. It listens, then asks the questions that help you understand what you're really feeling — and it remembers, building a private memory that's yours alone.

2

Both of you

Invite your partner

When you're ready, your partner joins with their own private space and the same care — their own conversation, their own private memory. Then, only when you both choose to, the coach helps each of you decide what to share, and mediates in a separate shared room so you can finally hear each other.

3

A human expert

A warm handoff, if you need it

If the coach senses you'd be better served by a person, it says so — and helps you find a licensed counselor nearby, with a briefing you both approved. You arrive already understood, not starting from zero.

The consent wall

Two private rooms. One shared room.
Nothing crosses without your say-so.

This is the hardest thing we build — and the whole reason you can be honest here. Your private memory and your partner's are sealed off from each other. The shared room only ever holds a copy of what you each chose to share.

Your private room

Yours alone

Everything you tell your coach lives here, with your private memory. Your partner can never see inside it.

Your partner's private room

Theirs alone

Their conversation and memory live here, sealed off from you in exactly the same way.

The shared room

Only what you both share

A separate space that holds only what each of you has approved. It can't reach back into either private room — and you can take something back at any time.

In the shared room, the coach's job is simple: help you understand each other and move closer. And when it senses you need more than coaching can give, it points you to a licensed human — with a briefing you both signed off on first.

How it feels to use

Listens like it remembers.

Listens before it advises

It asks the kind of questions that help you name what you feel — not generic chatbot sympathy, and never a rush to fix.

Remembers your story

Persistent memory across weeks, so you never have to start over or repeat yourself. No session clock ticking.

Two private rooms, one shared room

The coach only ever carries across what each of you has explicitly approved — and you can take it back anytime.

Insight letters

A gentle “here's how I feel” letter you can choose to share — often the bridge that invites your partner in.

Trust is the product

Built for privacy from the first line of code.

Coaching, never therapy

BothHeard is built as relationship coaching with crisis-detection guardrails and instant human escalation — designed to work with today's AI-safety rules, not around them.

No ads. No data resale. Ever.

Your conversations are encrypted and yours. Delete everything whenever you want. Kept private under our own privacy policy — never sold, never used to target ads.

Request an invitation

Be one of the first to be heard.

We're opening BothHeard to a small group of early members by invitation. Share a little about what's on your mind, and we'll reach out when your invitation is ready.

  • Private and encrypted from day one
  • Start solo — invite your partner only if and when you want
  • Kept private under our privacy policy — never sold

Private and encrypted. Kept private under our privacy policy — never sold, never used for ads.